Saturday, June 21, 2008

What Men Look for in a Girlfriend

It's not easy to find out exactly what men(link to all about men.com) are looking for in choosing a girlfriend.

1. Independency
First, man attract to woman who can take care of themselves. An independent woman knows exactly what she wants. This kind of girl doesn't depend on man to realize happiness. She pays attention to values that can fulfill her quest on life's pleasures. Her life has been started before the right man come into her life. It's not merely a man who can support her existence. Maybe, as said by Rene Zelweger in Jerry McGuire, “You complete me..".

2. Wing Woman.
An appropriate girlfriend should also know when his boyfriend needs her as his wing man wing woman. Like Batman(link amazon) who always need support from Robin, or like The Lone Ranger with Tonto. Man realizes something, that he is sometimes not as strong as he expected. A Sidekick is his true friend in facing all troubles and sorrows in life. But of course, he should do the same for you.


3. Sensual without necessarily Sexual
It's much easier to be beautiful. However, to be sensual is a further exploration. You should be beautiful inside and outside. It takes a lot of practice, but most of all, it's about positive thinking and whole life self improvement.

4. The Little Things
To love somebody means to show and express it in your everyday life. You should do the little things that let him know you love and care. Paying attention to his individual needs is as important as love in the theory and concept itself. There are a lot of daily activities that may involve each of you, i.e. cooking, cleaning, etc. Vice versa, he should do the same for you to make your relationship (link in) equal and balance.

5. No Pressure
Men tend to avoid pressure. Therefore, women should avoid trying to call or him many times during the day. Also, try not to ask him in detail about his today activity. Just ask a little to show cares, and that’s it. Men don’t like to feel being investigated.